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Since it looks like 'that' thing is gone, us wimmen won't have to be banished to the kitchen barefoot and only have sex in the missionary position. heh.
Are you instigating a take out and cunnilingus holiday O.o?
00:05 Jul 29 2011 Times Read: 721
-Actions speak louder than words.
-With every action there is a reaction.
Two things to remember when dealing with people.
If you say you are going to do it, then by all means, just do it. Stop crying wolf. It does not get you attention. The only thing it does is makes people grow more tired of your shit.
I was thinking of the past times up until the present. And I realized something...
It must really suck to be you. No one pays you any attention unless you have something nasty to say. Why? because people get entertained by conflict. So when no one pays you any mind, you have to run and spew your vileness.
At least the people I enjoy spending time with enjoy me for ME and not because they just want to be entertained by the fact that I can be a big bag of cunt. ;)
I am always entertained by you and you luscious lips, your ravishing eyes, extraordinary breast and... oups sorry drooling here... darn anybody got a towel?
09:10 Jul 24 2011 Times Read: 838
Before I go to bed I have to say that I miss my Ducky :(
This has been one of those 'nagging' thoughts that have been in my mind since I spent time with my two friends Monday.
After my mom passed, I was in a unconventional relationship. I'll say it was unconventional because it's just easier. The person I was with, I got to know and fell for their strengths, weaknesses, their live and how they lived.
I fell for the person, not what the person was.
So my friend Steve looked at me and questioned me about it. "Do you remember those years ago when you were with...."
Then the questions started to come. Now I have no problem with them knowing the ins and outs of me. We have been friends for numerous years and always come back together. As I tried to explain to him the answers he and my best friend just kept getting a puzzled look on their face.
I understand, I really do. I know it can be hard to be friends with someone that is as open minded and free spirited as me. Not everyone is going to agree with the way I choose to live my life, but that's okay. It's going to happen no matter who comes in and out of it.
I did get kind of flustered because it also can be difficult for me since they are not as open as I am.
I remember saying something along the lines of 'I would rather had been with them numerous times then have to deal with the shit my ex put me though of rather getting some b.s. tattoo, instead of coming and seeing me. At least with my unconventional relationship, they loved me enough to want to be around me.'
I think that kind of made them think for a moment.
It did make me sad because even though I love them to death, they didn't get a chance to know the person that I seen and why I felt the way I did. Instead those choose to label the situation and close it off before hand.
While I know I can be judgmental at times, I try not to be that closed off when someone lives a lifestyle that is not like mine. Because in the end, I could be missing out on something fantastic and wonderful.
people do that a lot - judge us by their standards - and its because they can't see things from anyone else's perspective but their own. It's so much better to be open-minded like you are, that way, you do get the chance to experience what others are closed to.
I have learned that some really awesome people live with blinders on. It is sad that they either choose to live that way, or that they are so used to seeing things in one light that it is incredibly hard for them to readjust their perspective. There are complications in every relationship, but ultimately if they love you and are "fit" for you, then that is more than what most people find in their lives.
Living life to your OWN standard is the most rewarding way to live. It can also be the most painful. It takes great personal strength and maturity to forge on beyond the hurtful judgements of others, especially those we've cared for or respected.
Those folks rob themselves of beauty that is worth seeing in the places they are unwilling to look. Feel sad for THEM.
:)
00:46 Jul 22 2011 Times Read: 874
Getting wrapped up with the fantasy of it all can be such a vacation from the same monotony of life. The excitement, the wonder and the possibilities can take you to a place that you need to be if even for a moment.
And then reality comes along and says 'tsk tsk...no, that is not the way it is going to be'. Then the fantasy aspect is removed and the realism starts to take place.
The smack of reality can be so cold, cruel and sudden.
It can leave you reeling and wondering where you got lost along the way.
Geee.. thanks Morri for blowing my big surprise. Why'd you have to do that to my black ass?
00:24 Jul 15 2011 Times Read: 949
Holy awkward shower, batman.
My cat figured out that if I leave the door open a lil bit, he can break in. Then he learned that if he sits between the shower curtain and the plastic liner, he can watch me and not get wet.
I've never had a more awkward shower.
It was like.. disturbing on levels I can't even describe.
Haha. My cat use to sit on the tub side, paw reach in behind the curtain to play with the water. It was fun to watch, and really fun to pull the curtain back, splash him with the water.
It will always be Moons or Moonie to me. Though I do refer to you as Lainey sometimes. You are moonie enough to be Moonie. If you get any Moonier, I don't know what I'd have to call you. :P
Hi Elaine! My name is Krista and I just wanted to say its such a pleasure to meet you.
19:40 Jul 13 2011 Times Read: 985
I've been having some horrible dreams lately. The ones that you just can't seem to understand. Then it throws in real life past elements and it makes it all the weirder.
Before my grandparents passed they owned a really nice house on the lake. I had a dream I was there again. And then it started out as a low key haunting. I noticed some things were moving, no big deal. And then it turned into something more sinister.
There were times that I would hear the voices of evil and then it would morph into past family members. There were rabid bats and people around me kept becoming possessed. It started to get really bad, but I wouldn't leave. Well, I guess I couldn't leave.
I tried to call for help, but then the evil would keep messing with the phone lines. I'd hear a voice, feel relieved and then manic laughter would ring out.
I remember trying to banish the spirits myself and just couldn't do it. I also remember going to a church and looking for help, but none of the priests would help me. I remember just being so flustered all I could do was cry.
Yes. :) BUt I'll be in sleepy land by that time if I am at all lucky. If I end up wakeful, though, (by the way - Eastern, Central what?) I'll come in and squeal :D
I bought some space bags the other day. I wanted to try them to store some pillows and blankets.
It. Was. FUN. hahahah
I had a few left over and I put a huge stuffed bear I have in it. Of course in my mind I heard it scream and cry as the air got sucked out of the bag. And then the evil laughter started.
Moonie, I swear you just reminded me of something I had blocked out. I went to youtube to find out how to use them, and one of the hits on the sidebar had a guy using one on himself. You know that moment when you KNOW you shouldn't click but that you're still going to?
I don't know how much space he was planning to save, but I was pulling for the Hoover.
Tomorrow, I really need to get in my closet and start talking care of things. I need to go get rid of an old tower I have, get rid of a computer chair, and other odds and ends that I don't use.
I've bought some space bags to condense the spare blankets and pillows I have. I am hoping once I get my closet taken care of I can slowly start to redo my room.
I need to look into getting a smaller bed and a different way to store my books. I really think the best idea for me is to not design a room, but to do what I do best and just fill it with the things I like. I like eclectic rooms. I think they show tons of personality and tell a story of the person.
My daughter talked me into buying her some. Hers is white. I must say, I was rather impressed with it. It looks really good. Although it does seem to depend on what color you are putting it on top of. It works much better for her if its a shade of red or pink or some brighter color. Darker colors for her dont look good either.
Have tried that and it takes ages to get it right. The black wasn't as good as it looked in the advert. White works best but I didn't like the look of it so much.
05:44 Jul 05 2011 Times Read: 1,156
Memories turn faint.
We delete.
We Move on.
The path of life is a beautiful journey.
Always learning with every step and new direction we take. It's an amazing moment in time.
Love the hell out of those rabbits! We had a big one, after a year and half though- he died. But he was litter box trained and he slept in a dog kennel. He was cool with our cats and our cats were cool with him.
COMMENTS
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Morrigon
21:41 Jul 29 2011
Say it is so momma! Say the dark days of our oppression are over!
MooniePie
21:44 Jul 29 2011
Baby, break free of your wimmenly oppression! Throw your legs in the air and rejoice! Order take out and make your man please you!
Things are a changin'!
Sulks
21:51 Jul 29 2011
burn your bra ladies and let us vote!
woo-hoo!
I hate sexist pigs LOL
Morrigon
21:56 Jul 29 2011
LOL throw your legs in the air. hahaha
Sulks
22:07 Jul 29 2011
jeez, how about I throw one leg up and keep the other firmly on the ground, I can't quite get used to this new era of freedom. It feels strange... :P
Joli
22:59 Jul 29 2011
You know what I'mma do? Mop the floor with my Lysol! Take THAT, Dave!
PAGAN
23:01 Jul 29 2011
oh heck Joli, you had to bring up the lysol again...these days are over, throw away your mop and rejoice!
RedQueen
23:12 Jul 29 2011
Crap, I forgot- I need to vacuum
MooniePie
23:26 Jul 29 2011
I'd burn my bra, but I wouldn't want to scare people or injure those I walked next to. heh.
Requiem
01:48 Jul 30 2011
Umm.
I love shoes. Win. I can wear them
I love cooking. ... I keep the kitchen.
Sex ... Sex needs to be adventuresome. Win!
Joli - Yes, douching in the kitchen keeps those two birds and one stone going and going. :P
Wow. Heh. And yeah ... keeping the bra. It's the only way perk happens. My boobs are emo.
PhoenicianDream
07:13 Jul 30 2011
Are you instigating a take out and cunnilingus holiday O.o?